Happy New Year!

Time flies. A belated happy new year to you!

My son continues to like going to school and is doing fine. The kids were assessed at the end of Term 1, last Dec, and teacher says he's right smack in the middle of the scale (ie average) for numeracy and literacy. I have learnt to take that as good news (bear in mind that I was brought up with the mindset that 'average' is not good enough).

I am slowing down on teaching him academic stuff simply because there are many other areas to work on and I'm getting burnt out. I'm trying not to worry that he'll fall behind academically now that I've stopped his maths enrichment class, so I still supplement what he's taught in school, with focus on literacy and numeracy. I just want him not to be kicked out of school (which they might if he cant cope), and to be independent and happy.

Doing fine doesnt mean things are smooth sailing and problem free. There are still many areas in which I do not know how to help him. Things that are seemingly simple and comes naturally for typically developing kids need to be taught repeatedly for him, and I dont mean fine or gross motor skills.

I am hoping that if I can help his system mature, by providing him the right environment (reducing daily stressors, sleeping early, better nutrition, variety in experiences) and right physical exercises, then he'd be able to focus better in school, learn by himself, and develop the areas he's weak in (speech, social skills, fine motor, gross motor, confidence).

Chinese New Year celebration was good. We were at the in-laws for 5 days. It was more relaxing this time round, for several reasons. He can now feed himself and doesnt vomit. He's managed to get into a good school, so there's far less stress on me in preparing him for the entrance assessment.

Next few months will be busy for me. My current helper's contract is coming to an end. We have yet to find a suitable new helper. But even though I'll be without a helper once she leaves, it'll still be less stressful than present. That is why we are far more careful in selecting a new helper.

I had started preparing for her departure a few months ago, by reorganising and decluttering the house (mainly my son's stuff!).  That's also one reason why I've been quiet on my blog. Busy busy busy. There are still many other areas to sort out and cupboards to clean.

It's late. The fireworks have been setting off loud booms in the last 20 mins to usher in the chinese new year. I look forward to a year of celebrating my son's new achievements and a more joyful and relaxing family life.

May this year bring you and your family good health, happiness, and a spirit that is at peace!